Islam & Marriage Ceremonies (Cambridge (CIE) IGCSE Religious Studies): Revision Note

What are the features of the marriage ceremony in Islam?

Marriage in Islam

• Marriage is an important part of family life in Islam

• Islam teaches that marriage is important to Allah

• The Hadith says:

• Marriage is seen as a blessing from Allah and a way to strengthen the Muslim community (ummah)

• The purpose of marriage is to provide love, companionship and support and to help raise a family in line with Islamic teachings 

• Marriage is a lifelong, faithful commitment based on trust, mutual respect and shared responsibilities between husband and wife

• It is considered a moral safeguard that helps Muslims remain faithful and avoid sinful behaviour

Features of the marriage ceremony in Islam

• Marriage is not just a social contract in Islam

  • It is seen as an act of worship 

• The features of the ceremony reflect both the religious and practical importance of marriage

• The Islamic marriage ceremony is called the Nikah

• The wedding ceremony can take place in the mosque, at home or in a wedding hall

  • There must be a minimum of two witnesses to make the marriage valid in Islamic law

• A religious official (such as an Imam) may perform the ceremony

• During the ceremony, the couple getting married both agree to the Aqd Nikah, a formal legal agreement between the bride and groom to live together as husband and wife according to Islamic law (Shari’ah)

• The couple both agree to the terms of the marriage freely and willingly, since forced marriage is forbidden in Islam

• A key part of the Nikah is the mahr, a mandatory gift from the groom to the bride, agreed upon as part of the Aqd Nikah

  • It can be money, jewellery, property or anything of value

  • It symbolises the groom’s commitment to the marriage and responsibility to his wife

  • The mahr belongs to the bride alone and must be respected

• The Walimah is the celebration or marriage feast held after the Nikah 

  • It is a Sunnah tradition of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)

  • It is a chance for family and friends to celebrate together and give thanks to Allah

The role of the witnesses and the meaning of marriage rituals

The role of the witnesses

• Witnesses are essential to an Islamic marriage. Without them, the Nikah (marriage) is not valid

• At least two adult Muslim witnesses must be present at the Aqd Nikah (marriage contract)

• Their role is to:

  • Ensure the marriage is based on free and informed consent from both the bride and groom

  • Provide public confirmation of the marriage, helping to prevent secret or dishonest unions

  • Uphold the moral and social accountability of the couple

• The presence of witnesses also shows that marriage is a community matter, not just a private arrangement

The meaning of marriage rituals

• Every part of the Islamic marriage rituals has meaning

• It reflects the Islamic values of those entering into the union and the community that supports them

• Before the marriage ceremony 

  • The family may be involved in choosing a suitable marriage partner, but forced marriage is forbidden

    • Each person has the right to choose their partner

  • There must be a sincere intention (niyyah) to please Allah and follow his guidance for the marriage

    • The marriage must be seen as more than just a source of love and companionship but also as a religious duty and act of worship

  • The marriage proposal (khitbah) is a formal affair

    • This stage allows the couple and families to agree on the mahr and discuss arrangements

    • The period of engagement is a time for preparation, not free mixing, as modesty and suitable boundaries must be observed

• During the marriage ceremony

  • The Aqd Nikah (marriage contract) is signed as the foundation of the marriage, and both partners must give free consent

  • The mahr (gift) is agreed and recorded in the contract as a symbol of the groom’s responsibility and the bride’s rights

  • The adult Muslim witnesses ensure the marriage is valid and public

  • The ceremony may include features reflecting the belief that marriage is an act of worship, including readings from the Qur’an, prayers for the couple and a sermon

• After the marriage ceremony

  • The Walimah is held to allow the whole community to celebrate and publicly announce the marriage

    • This event follows the Sunnah tradition of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)

    • It symbolises openness, generosity and gratitude to Allah for the marriage

  • The couple now starts married life and is expected to:

    • Live together

    • Show each other kindness, respect and loyalty

    • Raise a family in line with Islamic teachings